One of my twins was so horrible l was going to give him to human services for a few days to give me and mine a break so they could monitor him and see what help I could be given.  Then six weeks ago we started failsafe and l have a new kid. He helps me cook and clean, asks if there are any jobs to do,  mostly does his chores. Everything works best when no ds around.  Chats to us especially hubby who he was prickly around.  Beautiful improvements. - Adele, by email